Thursday, January 22, 2015

You name it!! :)

Life...how would you like to define it?
How precious is it you?
Are you happy?

Ask yourself again..
Are you really?

for who you are!!
for the people around you!
for the things and people you love!
for the things you do!
for the things you don't!
for the times you achieve!
for the times you fail!
for the things you hate!
for the bad you have done!
for the mistakes you have made!

well may be we haven't thought this much..
or may be we have!
Maybe we haven't questioned much
to ourselves or may be have!
Maybe some of us are simply okay,
Maybe some are too ignorant to care about all these!
Or sometimes thinking too much that it has stopped us from
thinking something more..!
The fact is our thoughts,faith,belief,values and perception differs.
and not all of our lives are same...

but Life is indeed precious!!
But one reminder Life is "as we make it"

Not everyday goes smooth..
obstacles come our way..small or big..
anger,love,sadness,fear,fright,jealousy,tension..are all sort of human
emotions and we feel all these at different days
we all do..so having any one of these at certain times is simply okay :)
because we are humans and its natural for us to feel all this way..

but one reminder just try to have a hold on all these exposures to emotions
learn when to stop and when to rise!
It is in the absence of hold on to these feelings that people suffer..
what to hold and what to let go
what to seed and what to throw
we are trouble makers and trouble takers
we are sinners we are saint..
the decision is not in anybody else but within ourselves
don't contract your emotions too much so that you
forget how to feel and don’t be into emotions so much
such that you forget what you are...
often we see people i would say in a battle of emotions..
you never know what a person is going through just by seeing his/her face
a physical battle is tolerable it will hurt but will heal sooner or later

but what about the battle within "you"?

this battle is something that either ends you or makes you stronger everyday..
this is a battle that will change your life either to the good or to the bad..
we have problems..problems are let us say an inevitable part of our lives..
various problems come related to finances,society,family,friends,relationships,health
just to name a few there's so much more..

"there are situations when you feel that you might just give up..but my friend when you gather a courage and wake up the next day for that i respect you!"

People are always struggling with something!!
 May be here i am making a complex picture with my assumptions..but i strongly feel the need that may be we cannot understand everything but there are something that are in need to be understood..Waiting to be understood..
Since the day we are born the days of our struggle started..now here i am not being a pessimist because struggles have both a positive and a negative side..


How much of the times you actually say you are okay when you are not?
Sometimes you Feel like "i am just not in the mood" these cycle of emotions goes on.. How many times have you faced in situation when you don’t want a company but having a company is actually what you need! its not just about talking and listening but the feeling that works just by the presence of someone..
So a reminder “doesn’t hesitate"...!

Moving on with this piece of writing here i would like to twist my words towards
a much talked about but least discussed socially sensitive issue "suicide"
We all know what suicide...is!
We know...we have seen...we have heard people commit it But What about the cause to it? It is such That these is an aspect that is based much on peoples
assumptions and findings..the real reasons are most of the time a mystery!

People make assumptions and their own research out of it and conclude the obviousness in happening of the situation..
The reasons when actually can be anything...Generally speaking it’s an act of killing oneself..but does that make that person a bearer of crime??
Does it? Or is it us who are the criminals actually? Is it the society? Is it the people?
Blames are easy to put but hard to bear when it comes to oneself...

What i think is suicides are not just physical but they are of three types:
Physical
Mental
Emotional
Happening of any one of it concludes to the same end….
We see and hear of people who are actually living but people addressing them as their living is equal to dying?? And why is that??
“I am living by dying every day!” We have heard people saying this...we have seen people doing it.. And when people wish to bring an end to it the thought behind the whole issue that actually compels a person in different situation has always made me wonder..
But like every other human being even i am based on assumptions that is an outcome of my thought..and ability to judge things.

So life just might be too busy for little details to be cared of but there might be someone around you who is in need of your help...to be understood and to be cared of!
Like a said the battle within you...its the hardest..
There are situations when you feel like running away..
Times when you feel like bursting into tears and just love every drop as they fall
for they are your feelings that before someone could read it or even you could understand it fell off!!

Also it’s a matter of a person "will power" to cope up with things in the downturns of life..
it’s the confidence and faith in you that if is weak becomes inefficient for you..
Like i mentioned we might be too busy to care of or we rarely notice
but sometimes even the smallest of signs might trigger towards something big

Not all sort of emotions lead into the same outcomes..because struggle is a part of life and people live with it every day
So we need to understand that we are not alone
Somewhere over the rainbow there is hope
Somewhere over the boundaries there are people least fortunate than you
Somewhere people have so much deal with that seeing or even the act of hearing it makes you not want life but people living each moment of it.

Somewhere beyond the clouds there is a sun hidden too..!!
There are 7 Billion people in this world and by that there are 7 Billion battles being fought every day!!
don’t forget to believe in yourself
Love your life and every it’s every aspects.
Help the ones in difficulty..Your presence has a meaning to someone and like someone else’s has for you
For the times you rise and have faith i salute you!!
I know the presence of gap between the ease in saying and difficulty in  doing but....
Just one chance we all are getting Learn to love it and make it worthwhile :)
#take#it#dont#let#it#take#you#


best wishes….

P.S-i couldn't find a title to this post so you are free to name it after the read the way you think that best suites it!! i would really like to know! please do comment!
Sorry for the the bad grammar and sentence formations.. my vocabulary/grammar is weak! also this is an outcome of random thoughts ;)